So I went yesterday for my regular OB appointment and to see if we could determine the gender of our little baby with an ultrasound. I am 16 weeks along, and the Dr. assured me that we would have a 99% chance of seeing everything. So after a few minutes of measurements he took a look……and we still have no idea what we’re having. The baby refused to cooperate, was apparently in the middle of a complicated tap dance routine, and also thought it would be funny to tangle the umbilical cord and have it in just the right spot so that no matter what resolution or method the Dr. used, we couldn’t tell if it’s a boy or a girl. Maybe it’s because Craig and I decided not to find out our babies gender with three of my pregnancies, but I am not disapointed at all. I was so excited to see our little one moving and dancing around in there, I really don’t care that we didn’t get a definitive answer on gender. I’m supposed to return in another couple of weeks for a complete diagnostic ultrasound, but I may have to make some changes instead.
While I really think my Dr. is fantastic, I am having a hard time
with the long drive and then the long wait to see him. I know my Dr. is
busy because he’s in high demand, it’s just not working out for me with
all of the driving and waiting. I hate that I have to drive 50 minutes
to his office, wait for 45 minutes or more to be seen, and then drive
the whole long way back. I think once my appointments become more
frequent and are every two weeks, and then weekly, it will be even
worse. And I am becoming more and more unhappy with the idea of not
delivering in my local hospital. I love the hospital here, it’s very
patient oriented, and I get the most personalized and friendly care. I
really loathe the thought of changing Dr.’s, but I think I need to do
what’s best for my family as well as myself, and a change seems to be
the right answer for all of those reasons. First I need to make some
calls to some of my friends and get some recommendations, and then
figure out if I want to do this or not.